Honouring Your Values – And Staying True to Your Path One of the biggest lessons I have learned in life is that an unwavering sense of honesty and honouring your values is always the best policy. Although life temps us sometimes as this humble street vendor was, the longterm consequences often isn’t worth the short […]
Creating Good Feelings – Feeling Better Quickly and Acceptance through Allowing… Not so good feelings – We all have things in our lives that we go through and sometimes we don’t like them very much at all. The fact remains that what “is” simply “is”. Resisting those things in our lives that we have no […]
Modal Operators of Necessity – Can’t vs. Don’t – Meta Model language patterns… In NLP the Meta Model refers to specific patterns of language that effect how you frame your ideas about our behaviour. By changing one little word you can change how your thinking or saying something feels, as well as have a HUGE […]
Handling Criticism – “No matter what you say or do to me” – How to change your state of mind… Handling criticism from others isn’t always easy for everyone but you can learn to deal with it in a resourceful way, that makes you feel good about yourself. You don’t have to give other people […]
Presupposition of NLP #1 – “The meaning of your communication is the response you get!” – NLP techniques and attitudes… NLP techniques employ several presuppositions to help you when communicating with yourself and others. A presupposition is simply an assumption or in this case an attitude. The NLP attitude “The meaning of the communication is […]
In NLP, we often ask the question “when is enough enough?” And what we are looking for by asking this question is whether or not they’ve actually reached their personal threshold with a particular issue or problem. It is a question used to calibrate whether a person has reached the point of no return, in […]
I knew “I needed to move house,I went there, I saw the place, it was gorgeous and then I told myself I just had to have it and bam I did it, I bought it right then and there” Any really good NLP Practitioner, has a tuned ear not only what “what” their client is […]
The other day my mom and dad dropped over to my place. It doesn’t happen often, so although I visited them a week or so earlier I was really excited to see them again and spend some more time together. After a few moments of pleasantries we settled in around the kitchen table. It was […]